The Coming of Age for Girls trip started off with a tearful
song (They are going, they are going, they are going away…) as each girl said
goodbye to her family and took her first courageous step into the unknown. With
three women as their mentors, the girls loaded into the van, and we were off to
Sacred Groves for two days to prepare our hearts and minds for the journey
ahead. The girls threaded bead necklaces, reflecting on who they are and who
they want to be as young women as they worked. Our first night was marked by
each girl saying YES to the journey, and receiving the gift of an animal ally
to support her goals for her trip. Some of the allies with us on our trip were Dragonfly, Frog, and Hummingbird.
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Lighting the sweatlodge fire. |
Our second day the elders of Sacred Groves, Tere and
Therese, held a sweatlodge for us—in the lodge we swam our way through the
sweat, steam, and darkness to dig deep for what it was each girl really wanted
out of the trip. At night we practiced fox-walking—walking quietly on the
earth—and heightening our senses. Each night as the girls scrunched down into
their sleeping bags, stories and jokes and excitement filled the
Moonlodge.
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Hanging out at the Moonlodge |
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Day 3 we headed out to Dungeness Forks Campground where we
were finally camping in the forest! The girls learned and practiced some of the
essential skills of camp craft and backcountry survival and performed skits to
teach each other Leave No Trace principles. The next day we packed our packs,
and headed out onto the trail under a light drizzle.
Even in rain, the trail up to Royal Basin
is beautiful.
Gratitude abounded on our trip for simple things—warm tea,
cover from the rain, a warm and dry sleeping bag.
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Day hiking to Royal Lake |
On our day hike to Royal
Lake, we sat down for
lunch and heard rustling in the brush nearby. We froze, looking for what was
scurrying about –and who should pop out of the brush, but a juvenile long-tailed
weasel! Here is a picture of one, although not the one we saw:
The moon welcomed us to 3rd Beach on our eighth
day together, and continued to glow bright even in the afternoons along the
beach. We hiked along the beach and up and down rope ladders to avoid high tide
zones.
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Working it out on a more gentle rope ladder |
We saw a family of otters, 3 little ones and one big one
make a sprint for the ocean, leaving behind perfect tracks to examine.
The sun was setting at our backs and the moon rising ahead of
us on the afternoon that we arrived at Toleak Point to setup for the girls
24-hour solos—what poetry the cosmos loaned us at the moment that childhood was
setting for each girl, and their adolescence was rising!
We had a full day to prepare for the girls’ solos, and
plenty of time to play in the waves and check out the tidepools.
The evening before solos was marked with a ceremony marking
the end of childhood, and early the next morning the girls were off to their
solo sites, to sink into the heart of the inner journey of the trip.
The next day each girl was welcomed back to the central camp
as a new person – as a youth. We sat in circle and each young woman shared her
story of reflection, dealing with the logistics of maintaining a camp all on
her own, what it was like to be alone at night, mustering up the courage and
determination to continue the solo despite hunger pangs and physical
discomfort. We celebrated their return with food, jewelry making, decorating
each other with henna, and hours of relaxation on a perfectly sunny day.
On our last full day on the beach, the group took on more leadership
and organized their pack out of camp, meals, and camp setup back at Third Beach.
We returned to Journeys basecamp to finish up our trip with an Elders Council
where elders in the Journeys community heard the young womens’ story of their
trip, a big feast, and a last campfire filled with love and appreciation for
each youth. Finally, our trip ended with an excited reincorporation of these
new youths back into the folds of their families.
Sunshine may be mostly gone for the next six months, but the
stories that were shared in the August sun at Toleak Point—and the jokes told
around the fire, the songs sung, the intentions and dreams for ourselves that
we spoke aloud—are still glowing like hot coals in my memory, and will continue
to kindle us and whisper reminders of who we are, and who we hope to grow into, long past the
winter.